PREVIOUSLY ON 'THE BACHELOR' ` TENSE MUSIC FOUR... NAZ. ...BECAME THREE. TONIGHT ` A TEST OF CHARACTER... MY BIGGEST WORRY IS HOW HER FAMILY PERCEIVES ME. ...AS JORDAN FRONTS UP TO THE FAMILIES... HI, JORDAN. HOW ARE YA? ...OF THE FINAL THREE,... THIS IS JORDAN. FROM THE WILD WEST COAST... WELL, THERE'S ALWAYS THE CONCERN OF THE BROKEN HEART, ISN'T THERE? ...TO SUBURBAN HAWKES BAY... SAY HELLO. NOT SURE ABOUT ME, ARE YA? NO. (GIGGLES) ...AND BEACHFRONT NORTH SHORE. YOU ARE THE POSTER BOY FOR SERIAL DATING. HE WILL BE INTERROGATED... SO, YOU THINK YOU'VE HAD ENOUGH TIME TO MAKE THESE SORTA DECISIONS? ...AND CHALLENGED. TO BE HONEST, MAN, I W` I WAS SCEPTICAL ABOUT THE WHOLE THING. IF HE MAKES IT OUT IN ONE PIECE, HE'LL HAVE ONE CHOICE ` WHO TO SEND HOME. WILL IT BE GEEKY ERIN, WHO HAS ONLY JUST DROPPED HER GUARD? IF JORDAN DOESN'T LIKE MY FAMILY OR MY FAMILY DOESN'T LIKE HIM, IT WILL BE A VERY BIG DEAL. OUTGOING GO-GETTER FLEUR, WHO IS BATTLING TO CONTROL HER EMOTIONS? MY FEELINGS ARE GETTING EVEN STRONGER. OR THE MOST AFFECTIONATE OF THE GIRLS, NAZ, WHO WILL NEVER HOLD BACK? THIS VISIT WITH JORDAN IS DEFINITELY A MAKE-OR-BREAK DATE. COPYRIGHT ABLE 2016 DETERMINED MUSIC ALL THREE GIRLS THAT ARE WITH ME AT THIS STAGE MEAN SO MUCH TO ME IN THEIR OWN SPECIAL WAY. HOME VISITS ARE A GREAT CHANCE FOR ME TO GET TO KNOW THE GIRLS' FAMILIES AND A GET A FEEL OF WHERE THEY'RE FROM AND WHO THEY ARE. THERE ARE NERVES THERE, GOING IN, BUT I'M ALSO NOT GONNA SHY AWAY FROM ANY HARD QUESTIONS. ULTIMATELY, IF I FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND FRIENDS AND FAMILY, IT'S A GREAT INDICATION THAT I BELONG, AND THAT'S WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR. SO I'M SITTING UP ON TOP OF TE MATA PEAK, AND IT IS JUST SO STUNNING. YOU CAN SEE THE WHOLE OF HAWKES BAY, AND IT REALLY SIGNIFIES, FOR ME, WHERE I STARTED MY JOURNEY IN NZ. THIS IS WHERE I MOVED TO FROM HOLLAND. THIS IS ME. I'M REALLY EXCITED TO SHOW HIM THAT PLACE. UPLIFTING MUSIC BEING BACK AT HOME IS JUST THE BEST FEELING EVER. IT'S LIKE A WEIGHT HAS LIFTED OFF MY SHOULDERS, AND I FEEL LIKE I CAN BREATHE AGAIN. TODAY I'M MEETING FLEUR IN HAWKES BAY, AND I'M REALLY EXCITED TO SEE WHERE SHE'S FROM. I WOULD HAVE NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS GUESSED THAT AFTER ALL THIS TIME, I WOULD BE BACK IN MY HOME TOWN AND JORDAN WOULD BE ARRIVING. THAT IS JUST THE CRAZIEST THING TO EVEN IMAGINE. THERE'S NO OTHER GIRLS AROUND. IT'S JUST THE TWO OF US. OH. HELLO. GOOD TO SEE YOU AGAIN. GOOD TO SEE YOU. MWAH. GENTLE MUSIC TO SEE HER IN HER HOME TOWN IS A GREAT FEELING. SO, I'VE BEEN PRACTISING A COUPLE OF LINES. (SPEAKS DUTCH) YUP. GOOD MORNING. YUP. AND (SPEAKS DUTCH STILTEDLY). THAT'S AMAZING. YEAH? (CHUCKLES) YEAH, THAT'S REALLY COOL. (CHUCKLES) YEAH, IT'S GOOD. OH, THAT IS SO GOOD. WOW. YEAH. THAT'S IMPRESSIVE. HE SAYS 'LEUK U TE ONTMOETEN', WHICH MEANS 'NICE TO MEET YOU'. I THINK HE` YEAH, THAT WAS SOMETHING HE NEEDS TO SAY TO MY FAMILY, COS CLEARLY, HE'S ALREADY MET ME, BUT I KNEW WHAT HE MEANT. IT WAS REALLY SWEET OF HIM. YOU LOOK A LOT MORE RELAXED. YOU'RE LIKE, 'I'M HOME.' OH MY GOSH, I HAVE` YOU HAVE NO IDEA. AND HAVE YOU FILLED YOUR FAMILY IN ON... ON BITS AND PIECES? N-NOT YET. NOT YET. I'LL BE SEEING THEM FOR THE FIRST TIME WITH YOU, SO I'M SO EXCITED TO SEE THE BABY AND JUST... EVERYONE. OF COURSE, OF COURSE. I KNOW. I HAVEN'T SEEN THE BABY YET. I AM SO EXCITED. I HAVEN'T ACTUALLY MET MY YOUNGEST NIECE YET. SHE WAS BORN WHILE WE WERE IN HAWAII. THESE ARE THE TWO THINGS I'VE BEEN SO EXCITED ABOUT ` TO MEET MY NIECE, AND TO` YOU KNOW, FOR MY FAMILY TO MEET YOU, SO IT'S GONNA BE A GREAT DAY. OH MY GOSH. (SPEAKS DUTCH) SHE TALKS TO ME IN ANOTHER LANGUAGE, WHICH I ONLY REALLY COTTONED ON TO HALFWAY THROUGH, COS I'M SO NERVOUS I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT I'M HEARING. IT WAS INCREDIBLY ATTRACTIVE. 26-YEAR-OLD DUTCH-BORN YOUTH WORKER AND PHOTOGRAPHER FLEUR FORMED AN INSTANT ATTRACTION. HE COULD DEFINITELY BE MY FUTURE HUSBAND, I THINK, ABSOLUTELY. WHO KNOWS? (CHUCKLES) HER COMPETITIVE STREAK... I GOT IT! ALL EXCLAIM ...AND ADVENTUROUS SPIRIT PULLED JORDAN IN. THERE IS SOMETHING ABOUT FLEUR THAT'S COPING WITH EVERYTHING. SHE IS A LOT OF FUN. POP! I WAS JUST WONDERING ` WILL YOU ACCEPTING THIS ROSE? I WOULD LOVE TO. FLEUR IS SO ATTRACTIVE ON SO MANY LEVELS. THERE WAS NO DOUBTING THE SPARK. TELL ME SOMETHING ABOUT YOU THAT I DON'T KNOW YET. I HAVE HELMED A SHIP THROUGH BOTH THE SUEZ AND THE PANAMA CANALS. REALLY? THERE IS SOMETHING ABOUT TALKING WITH FLEUR THAT'S VERY... EASY. IT'S LIKE WE'VE DONE IT A HUNDRED TIMES BEFORE. BUT IT TOOK ONE EPIC NIGHT IN HAWAII... I DON'T THINK THERE WOULD BE ANYONE ELSE THAT I WANTED TO BRING ON THIS DATE. THAT'S GOOD. I'M GLAD. ...TO TURN THE FLAME INTO A FIRE. UPLIFTING MUSIC YOU WOULDN'T BE HUMAN IF YOU DIDN'T FEEL SOMETHING AFTER A NIGHT LIKE THAT. THIS IS REAL. (CHUCKLES) THERE BOND HAS ONLY BECOME MORE SERIOUS. I HAVE PICTURED MYSELF WITH MY PARENTS MEETING YOU. YEAH. HOW DID IT GO? IT` I THINK IT WILL GO DOWN REALLY WELL. WE KIND OF TOOK IT TO THE NEXT LEVEL, I FEEL LIKE. I DEFINITELY THINK JORDAN COULD FIT INTO MY LIFE VERY EASILY. TINKLING I'LL BE FINE UNTIL I'M, LIKE, STANDING AT THE FRONT DOOR, ABOUT TO GO IN,... AND YOU GO, 'OH, GOD.' TRYING TO, LIKE, GO OVER MY DUTCH AGAIN, MAYBE. YEAH. (CHUCKLES) I THINK MY BIGGEST CONCERN IS NOT GETTING ON WITH HER FAMILY. THERE DEFINITELY IS PRESSURE THERE. ARE THEY GONNA MAKE IT HARD FOR ME? I THINK THE ONE PERSON WHO MIGHT MAKE IT HARD ON YOU IS MY BROTHER-IN-LAW. DAN AND I HAVE BEEN VERY CLOSE FROM THE START. MY SISTER AND I WERE LIVING IN PALMERSTON NORTH, AND DAN WAS WORKING VERY HARD TO IMPRESS EVA, AND SO HE WOULD ALWAYS COME AND SEE ME AND ASK FOR ANYTHING HE COULD DO TO WIN EVA'S HEART. I GUESS I HELPED HIM OUT AND NOW HE'S HELPING ME OUT. WHAT'S THE WORST THING I COULD DO? YEAH, DON'T SCREW UP YOUR DUTCH. DON'T SCREW UP MY DUTCH? NAH. (CHUCKLES) RIGHT. NO. I GOTTA PRACTISE. DO YOU KNOW WHAT? I THINK THEY'RE GONNA BE VERY IMPRESSED. OK, COOL. MY FAMILY IS SUCH A BIG PART OF MY LIFE. FOR THEM TO GET ALONG WITH HIM AND FOR THEM TO LIKE HIM IS INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT TO ME. IF MY PARENTS DON'T LIKE HIM, YEAH, IT COULD BE MAKE OR BREAK. THE NERVES, FOR ME, ARE BUBBLING UP. IF YOU CAN'T GET ALONG WITH THE FAMILY, IT'S VERY LIKELY THE RELATIONSHIP WILL COME TO A STANDSTILL. #R & B MUSIC THIS IS A PRETTY BIG DEAL FOR ME. WHAT A GENTLEMAN. (CHUCKLES) HE NEEDS TO BE ABLE TO FIT IN WITH MY FAMILY. (EXHALES HEAVILY) HOW YA FEELING? OH, PRETTY GOOD. HOPE I'VE BRUSHED UP ON MY DUTCH ALL RIGHT. IT NEEDS TO FEEL NATURAL; IT NEEDS TO FEEL GOOD. DRAMATIC NOTE MAN: AUNTIE FLEUR'S COMING. (GASPS) HELLO! FLEUR'S MUM: OH MY GOD! OH MY GOD! IT'S SO GREAT TO SEE YOU! HI. HELLO. OH! AS SOON I WALK THROUGH THE DOOR, I SEE MY FAMILY, AND I'M JUST SO EXCITED,... HEY, MATE, HOW ARE YOU? JORDAN. HEY, MAN. JOE. ...AND I KINDA FORGOT ABOUT JORDAN. WHERE'S YOUR SISTER? OH, SHE'S BEEN LOOKING FORWARD TO THIS FOR A WHILE. FLEUR'S MUM: GREAT TO HAVE YOU HERE. WELL, IT'S GOOD TO BE HERE. MAN: HOW ARE YA? SORRY, YEAH, THIS IS JORDAN. THAT'S ALL RIGHT, I'LL- I'LL LEAVE YOU GUYS TO IT. I'LL COME BACK IN, WHAT, AN HOUR? FLEUR'S MUM: NO, PLEASE DON'T. FLEUR: LUCKILY, JORDAN IS A VERY CONFIDENT PERSON, AND WHILE I'M HUGGING AND KISSING THE BABY, HE'S INTRODUCING HIMSELF, AND, YEAH, I SHOULD'VE PROBABLY DONE THAT FOR HIM, BUT (CHUCKLES) I WAS KINDA PREOCCUPIED. OH, YEAH, I KNOW. FLEUR'S SISTER CHUCKLES JORDAN: I REMEMBER HOW I WAS WHEN I FIRST MET MY NEPHEW, AND IT'S QUITE SPECIAL TO BE ABLE TO SEE THAT CONNECTION BEING MADE BETWEEN THE TWO. OH! NOW, I WAS TRYING TO BRUSH UP ON A BIT OF DUTCH. OH, YEAH. UM,... UH, LET ME SEE HOW I GO. UM,... OK. FLEUR'S DAD: RIGHT. (SPEAKS DUTCH SLOWLY) FLEUR'S SISTER REPEATS DUTCH PHRASE (CONTINUES SPEAKING DUTCH SLOWLY) WOW! FLEUR'S SISTER: THAT'S GOOD. JORDAN'S DUTCH WAS TERRIBLE. DRAMATIC NOTE JORDAN: OH, WHO'S THIS WEE ONE? HELLO. SAY HI. HELLO. SAY HELLO. NOT SURE ABOUT ME, ARE YA? NO. (CHUCKLES) FLEUR'S MUM: GIVE HER A FEW MINUTES. (LAUGHS) THIS IS WHAT I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT THIS WHOLE TIME. I'VE BEEN WANTING TO TAKE HIM HOME TO MY FAMILY, AND TO NOW ACTUALLY BE SITTING ON MY SISTER'S COUCH, HAVING JORDAN NEXT TO ME AND MY FAMILY ON THE OTHER SIDE, THIS IS, LIKE` THIS IS SO SURREAL. WHAT'S A GOOD TOAST IN DUTCH? PROOST. PROOST. FLEUR'S SISTER: YEAH. PROOST. PROOST. FLEUR'S MUM: CHEERS. AMAZING HAVING YOU GUYS HERE. YES, THANK YOU VERY MUCH. YEAH, NO, WE'VE BEEN LOOKING FORWARD TO IT. IT FEELS SO NORMAL. I CAN TELL THAT MY FEELINGS ARE GETTING EVEN STRONGER, AND WE'RE SORT OF BUILDING UP. IT'S QUITE AN AMAZING FEELING. OH, YOU'VE BEEN LOOKING FORWARD TO THIS FOR SO LONG. YEAH. OH MY GOD, YEAH. YEAH. SORRY, BUT I THINK I'M` YOU'RE KEEPING HER TO YOURSELF. I KNOW. WHY NOT SHARE? CHUCKLING SHARING IS CARING. SHARING. SHARING IS CARING. (CHUCKLES) OH GOD. CAN'T BELIEVE MUM SAID THAT. WOULD YOU LIKE TO? YEAH, WE WOULD LIKE TO SEE HOW THAT LOOKS. (CHUCKLES) HOW YOU ARE WITH... JORDAN: I LOVE BABIES. SINCE THE BIRTH OF MY BROTHER AND SISTER'S KIDS, I'VE JUST LOVED THEM EVEN MORE. WELL, HIS SISTER IS ABOUT TO HAVE A BABY TOO. FLEUR'S MUM: OH, REALLY? YEAH. I JUST THOUGHT TO MYSELF, 'PLEASE DON'T CRY. PLEASE DON'T CRY WHEN YOU'RE IN MY ARMS.' (CRIES) HELLO. FLEUR: JORDAN IS REALLY GOOD HOLDING THE BABY, AND IT'S A PRETTY GOOD SIGHT. (CHUCKLES) I THINK JUST` LUNCH? OH, MATE. DO YOU WANNA GIMME A HAND? YEAH, SURE, MATE. SWEET, FANTASTIC. THANK YOU, GUYS. SEE YOU SOON. FLEUR'S MUM: OH, YUMMY. FLEUR: IF THERE'S ONE PERSON THAT MIGHT ASK JORDAN SOME TOUGH QUESTIONS, IT MIGHT BE MY BROTHER-IN-LAW. ALL RIGHT, MATE. OH, IT'S GOOD THAT YOU BROUGHT THE WEATHER OUT FOR ME (!) BEST HAWKES BAY WEATHER, INNIT? BROUGHT THE RAIN SPECIALLY FOR YA. DAN IS VERY PROTECTIVE OVER ME, SO I'M QUITE NERVOUS TO SEE HOW THAT'S GONNA GO. TO BE HONEST, MAN, I W` I WAS SCEPTICAL ABOUT THE WHOLE THING. I MEAN, SOMETHING LIKE THIS, WITH 25 OTHER GIRLS ` IF YOU'RE A GAMBLING MAN, THERE'S MORE CHANCE OF HER GETTING HURT THAN NOT. AND THERE'S DEFINITELY BEEN TIMES WHERE I THOUGHT, 'OH MY GOSH, WHAT AM I DOING?' LIKE, I D` I FEEL CONFIDENT IN WHAT WE HAVE,... YEAH. ...BUT AT THE SAME TIME, YOU GOTTA BE REALISTIC. YEAH. I MIGHT BE THE NEXT ONE TO GO. YEAH. SIZZLING I JUST HATE SEEING HER HURT, YOU KNOW, COS SHE GOES DOWN AND SHE THINKS IT'S HER FAULT, AND FOR ME, GOING INTO SOMETHING LIKE THIS, IT WAS JUST SETTING` SETTING HER UP FOR FAILURE AGAIN. I DON'T KNOW HIM, LIKE, COMPLETELY YET, BUT SOMETHING JUST FEELS RIGHT. YEAH. IT'S LIKE WE HAVE SO MUCH IN COMMON, AND... YEAH. YOU DO. YEAH. YEAH. AND WHEN YOU KNOW, YOU KNOW, I THINK. YEAH. YEAH. YEAH. SIZZLING DAN AND JORDAN HAVE BEEN GONE QUITE A WHILE, AND PART OF ME'S JUST SITTING THERE GOING, 'I WONDER WHAT THEY'RE TALKING ABOUT.' SHE'S REALLY FOUND IT HARD TO FIND THAT` YOU KNOW, THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE HOW CAN BE THERE FOR HER, AND SHE'S SUCH A GENUINE, NICE PERSON, TO THE EXTENT WHERE IT'S BEEN TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF AND SHE'S BEEN HURT. OBVIOUSLY, SHE FEELS EXTREMELY STRONGLY FOR YOU TOO. YOU WANT THE BEST FOR THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. SHE DESERVES TO BE HAPPY; SHE MAKES EVERYONE ELSE HAPPY. IT'S JUST I WANT THAT FOR HER AS WELL. YEAH. NOW IT'S GETTING TOUGH, COS, YOU KNOW, YOUR FEELINGS ARE VERY REAL, AND THEY'RE GET- YEAH. IT'S GETTING SERIOUS. YEAH, IT IS. YEAH. AND, I MEAN, I DO, I REALLY LIKE HIM. I'VE DEFINITELY NOT SEEN HER LIKE THIS BEFORE WITH A GUY. SHE SEEMS SMITTEN BY HIM. SO, NO, I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU. YOU SO DESERVE THIS. SHE LIKES HIM A LOT, SO FINGERS CROSSED THIS WORKS OUT FOR US. WELL, FOR HER. (CHUCKLES) JORDAN: THEY'RE A VERY TIGHT FAMILY, AND I LOVE THAT THEY HAVE ONE ANOTHER, AND THE SUPPORT THEY HAVE FOR ONE ANOTHER IS HUGE. UH, OOF, 25 YEARS? WE MET WHEN WE WERE 16. (CHUCKLES) I THINK THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION FOR US WOULD BE ` CAN YOU MAKE OUR DAUGHTER HAPPY? (CHUCKLES) OF COURSE. YEAH. THAT'S ALL I COULD ASK AND WISH FOR. THE TIME THAT ME AND FLEUR HAVE SPENT WITH ONE ANOTHER THROUGH THIS WHOLE PROCESS, I'VE ENJOYED MY TIME WITH HER,... AW, THAT'S GOOD TO HEAR. ...ABOVE AND BEYOND WHAT I THOUGHT I EVER WOULD. OK. TO ME,THE ESSENCE OF FINDING SOMEONE WHO'S PERFECT FOR YOU IS YOU BOTH BRING THE BEST OUT OF EACH OTHER. AND THAT'S` YEAH, THAT'S WHAT A RELATIONSHIP IS, YOU KNOW, BRING OUT THE BEST, I THINK. AS LONG AS SOMEBODY MAKES MY DAUGHTER HAPPY, I AM HAPPY. EVA: YEAH. (CHUCKLES) WE GOOD? OH, (SPEAKS INDISTINCTLY) I GOTTA HAND YOU BACK NOW. YEAH. YOU CAN'T COME WITH. ARE WE TAKING EXTRA BAGGAGE? TODAY HAS BEEN THE MOST AMAZING DAY. I AM OVER THE MOON; I AM ON CLOUD NINE, AND I FEEL LIKE I HAVE BEEN COMPLETELY RELAXED. I'VE BEEN AT HOME, WITH MY FAMILY; HE HAS SEEN THE TRUE FLEUR. ALL THE BEST. MWAH. MWAH. OH. THANK YOU. I'M SURE I'LL BE FINE. (CHUCKLES) I HOPE SO TOO. YEAH. HOPE TO SEE YOU SOON, AND YOU TOO. COOL. HEY, THANK YOU VERY MUCH. BOTH SMOOCH GREAT TO MEET YOU. ALL RIGHT. FLEUR'S DAD: OK, MAN. CHEERS. THANKS FOR COMING. NO, THANK YOU FOR HAVING ME. FLEUR'S MUM: JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEARTS. AND AS YOU` WHAT DO YOU SAY? TOT ZENS? WOMEN: TOT ZIENS. EVA: GOOD! REALLY GOOD. TOT ZIENS. THERE YOU GO. MAN: MATE, NOW YOU'RE SHOWING OFF. FLEUR: I CAME ON 'THE BACHELOR' HOPING THAT THIS WOULD BE THE LAST GUY I WOULD EVER HAVE INTRODUCE TO MY FAMILY, AND THAT I'M THE LAST GIRL TO... GET THE FINAL ROSE, I GUESS. GENTLE PIANO MUSIC OH, THIS IS A NICE PLACE. YEAH, THIS PLACE IS ACTUALLY OWNED BY ` THERE HE IS ` MY FRIEND NICK. IT'S CALLED WRIGHT AND CO, AND WE OFTEN JUST HAVE DRINKS HERE AND JUST HAVE A GOOD TIME. YEAH. WE HAVE THIS WHOLE PLACE TO OURSELVES. I KNOW. IT'S VERY NICE. JORDAN AND I HAVE BEEN ON ALL THESE AMAZING DATES, AND IT'S BEEN ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE. WELL` CHEERS. CHEERS. TODAY IT'S JUST THE TWO OF US THERE, AND I THINK IT'S SO IMPORTANT TO HAVE THOSE MOMENTS SO WE CAN HAVE A SIT-DOWN AND JUST HAVE A CHAT. WAS THAT AS INTENSE AS YOU THOUGHT IT WAS GONNA BE? WELL, I WAS PRETTY NERVOUS GOING IN, BUT I THOUGHT I WAS GONNA GET, LIKE, GRILLED AND, YOU KNOW, ASKED SOME HARD QUESTIONS, WHICH` YOU KNOW, THERE WERE SOME QUESTIONS THAT WERE... (INHALES DEEPLY) TOUGH. MM. WHAT I GOT OVERALL FROM FLEUR'S FAMILY IS HOW MUCH THEY LOVE HER BUT ALSO THE CONCERNS AND WANTING TO PROTECT THEIR DAUGHTER FROM BEING HURT. TALKING IT OUT MAKES ME UNDERSTAND WHERE FLEUR IS STANDING IN ALL THIS. I GOT SO MUCH OUT OF TODAY. I MEAN, YEAH, IT DID FEEL LIKE IT WENT PRETTY WELL. I REALLY DID ENJOY, UM, SPEAKING WITH DAN OUTSIDE. MM. HE SHOWED ME THAT, YOU KNOW, YOU MEANT A LOT TO HIM. MM. HE WOULD GENUINELY CARE FOR YOU. YEAH. DAN CAN BE VERY TOUGH AND VERY CRITICAL. HE JUST WANTS TO MAKE SURE THAT I END UP WITH SOMEONE WHO TREATS ME RIGHT. I NEEDED THIS. I NEEDED TO JUST GO HOME, SEE MY FAMILY. FOR YOU TO MEET THEM, IT REALLY CHANGES THE WAY YOU SEE THINGS A LOT OF TIMES AND HOW YOU FEEL AND... YEAH, SO... YOU KNOW, THERE'S ALWAYS THAT LITTLE NAGGING THOUGHT THAT THERE ARE TWO MORE GIRLS. IT'S NOT A NICE FEELING, COS I WISH I COULD JUST NOT HAVE TO SHARE HIM, BUT THAT'S THE REALITY, AND... I JUST HAVE TO HOPE FOR THE BEST. LAID-BACK ACOUSTIC GUITAR MUSIC SO, I'VE BROUGHT TO MY HOME TOWN, WHICH IS MILFORD, ON THE NORTH SHORE IN AUCKLAND. JORDAN MEETING MY FAMILY IS IMPORTANT. IF JORDAN DOESN'T LIKE MY FAMILY OR MY FAMILY DOESN'T LIKE HIM, IT WILL BE A VERY BIG DEAL. OH, HELLO. GIDDAY. WELCOME. YOU LOOK GORGEOUS. THANKS. SO DO YOU. YEAH. COME, TAKE A SEAT. OH, THIS IS NICE. SEEING ERIN AT MILFORD BEACH, THERE'S SOME SORTA GLOW, SOME SORTA HAPPINESS THAT I SEE IN HER FACE THAT SHE'S HOME. I'M LOVIN' THIS. YEAH, SO, YOU LOOKING FORWARD TO MEETING MY MUM? OH, ABSOLUTELY. YEAH? LIKE, IT'S BIT` YOU KNOW, BIT NERVOUS, BUT... YOU KNOW, EXCITED AS WELL. MM. YOU'RE ACTUALLY MEETING ONE OF MY OLD FRIENDS AS WELL. HER NAME IS JAIMEE. YEAH. I WENT TO SCHOOL WITH HER, AND I'VE KNOWN HER SINCE I WAS 11, SO I REALLY TRUST HER OPINION. OK. YEAH. WHICH SHOULD I BE WORRIED ABOUT? NO, I THINK, YEAH, MUM IS SUPER SWEET. SHE` SHE'LL BE FINE. JAIMEE ` EXACT SAME. I THINK YOU'VE GOT, YOU KNOW, NOTHING` NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT. NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT? NO. JUST BE MYSELF? YEAH, (CHUCKLES) BE YOURSELF. GOING INTO MEETING ERIN'S FAMILY, THEY DON'T MUCH ABOUT ME, AND THEY HAVEN'T SEEN ME WITH ERIN AT ALL. I FEEL COMFORTABLE BUT NERVOUS. SHOULD WE JUST HOP TO IT? YEAH, BRING IT ON. LET'S GO. OK. I STILL CANNOT BELIEVE I'M HERE. IT'S REALLY WEIRD TO THINK BACK SO LONG AGO AND I WAS HOPPING OUTTA THAT CAR AND FIRST MEETING JORDAN, AND THEN NOW I'M ABOUT TO INTRODUCE HIM TO MY MUM. IT'S SO WEIRD. TINKLING GENTLE MUSIC 26-YEAR-OLD SUPER-YACHT MASSEUSE ERIN HAS TAKEN A SOFTLY-SOFTLY APPROACH. OH MY GOD! THIS IS SO COOL. IT'S AMAZING. SHE WAS VERY PATIENT, AND EVER SINCE WE SPENT THAT TIME AT THE BUTTERFLY AVIARY, THERE WAS SOMETHING CAPTIVATING ABOUT HER. THANK YOU FOR COMING OUT WITH ME. THANK YOU. BOTH SMOOCH SHE INITIALLY STRUGGLED TO CATCH JORDAN'S EYE. JORDAN, YOU'RE LOOKING VERY NICE AND BROWN. UM... THANK YOU. IT'S LIKE, 'HELLO?' (CHUCKLES) 'HERE I AM; THIS IS ME. WELL, I WAS WONDERING, STORM, DO YOU WANT TO? OOH, YEAH. I KINDA WANT TO GET TO KNOW HIM TO SEE IF THAT CONNECTION IS THERE, AND I FEEL LIKE AT THE MOMENT, IT'S... NOT REALLY HAPPENIN'. ERIN FINALLY DROPPED HER GUARD IN HAWAII,... I MAY NOT MAKE MY FEELINGS SORT OF AS STRONG AS THE OTHER GIRLS. IT'S KIND OF TAKEN ME A WHILE TO JUST, KIND OF, TAKE THIS ALL IN. ...LEADING TO AN UNFORGETTABLE FIRST SINGLE DATE,... OK, SO, SUPERMAN,... YEAH. ...BATMAN OR SPIDERMAN? SPIDERMAN'S DEFINITELY THIRD. YES! OK, GOOD. (GIGGLES) ...WHERE THEY FOUND COMMON GROUND. WE'RE PROBABLY STILL GONNA DISCOVER MORE AND MORE AS TIME GOES ON. IT'S JUST AN AMAZING EXPERIENCE, JUST BEING WITH JORDAN. THAT ONE. THAT WAS A GOOD ONE. BOTH CHUCKLE MELLOW MUSIC SINCE THEN SHE HAS MADE ALL THE RIGHT MOVES. A LOTTA PEOPLE ASSUME THAT I CAN'T PLAY CHESS. I THINK IT'S A BLONDE THING, PROBABLY,... (CHUCKLES) ...BUT THEN I` I SLOWLY SURPRISE THEM. ERIN HAS A WORLDLY ESSENCE TO HER. EVERY TIME I SPEND TIME WITH HER, IT'S JUST THIS DEVELOPMENT OF FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS THAT JUST GROWS. THEY SHARE A PLAYFUL CONNECTION... CAN YOU DO A GOLLUM IMPRESSION? GIVE IT A GO. IMITATES GOLLUM: MY PRECIOUS. (LAUGHS) THAT WAS OK. (CHUCKLES) I DON'T THINK HE LAUGHS LIKE THAT, THOUGH. (GIGGLES) ...BUT WITH A SERIOUS SIDE. BEST OUTCOME WOULD DEFINITELY BE ` I END UP WITH JORDAN AND WE ARE TOGETHER IN THE REAL WORLD. SO, THIS IS THE PLACE HERE? SING-SONGY: THIS IS MY HOME. (HUMS DRAMATICALLY) OH MY GOODNESS, SO EXCITED. ARE YOU NERVOUS? YEAH. (CHUCKLES) NO REASON TO BE. THE ONE THING I'M MOST NERVOUS ABOUT IS HOW THEY COMPREHEND THE SITUATION THAT I'M IN. YOU KNOW, DATING MULTIPLE GIRLS AT ONCE ` IT'S NOT NORMAL. SING-SONGY: HELLO. HI. OH MY GOD! LAUGHTER OH, THIS IS J` (LAUGHS) JORDAN CHUCKLES JORDAN. JORDAN: HELLO, HOW ARE YOU? NICE TO MEET YOU. I MEET ERIN'S MOTHER AND ONE OF HER FRIENDS. OK, JORDAN ` JAIMEE, MY FRIEND. HELLO, GIVE ME SOME LOVE. INDISTINCT CONVERSATIONS MWAH. SURPRISE ` MY AUNTY. I DIDN'T KNOW SHE WAS GONNA BE HERE. IT'S GREAT TO HAVE HER HERE, BECAUSE OUR FAMILY'S SMALL BUT IT'S SO CLOSE. OH, IT'S SO GOOD. (CHUCKLES) I HAVEN'T SEEN HER SMILE THIS MUCH IN, LIKE, THE LAST TWO MONTHS. OHHH! HEY, DON'T SAY THAT. ERIN'S MUM: YEAH, SHE'S USUALLY PRETTY GRUMPY. LAUGHTER IT FEELS, SURPRISINGLY, REALLY NORMAL TO JUST HAVE JORDAN THERE, AND I DON'T FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO, LIKE, KIND OF, LOOK AFTER HIM. HE JUST KINDA FITS IN REALLY WELL, SO, YEAH, IT'S A GOOD THING. WE'RE BIG COFFEE-DRINKERS IN THIS HOUSE. ARE YA? YEAH. I'M A BIG COFFEE-DRINKER TOO. WE LOVE OUR COFFEE. SO, JORDAN, HOW DO YOU THINK ERIN'S COPED? ERIN'S COPED REMARKABLY WELL. SHE'S BEEN PRETTY... PRETTY COOL CUCUMBER, I THINK,... CHUCKLING ...BUT IT` LIKE, JUST` JUST WITH HER MANNER AND HER, UM` HER ATTITUDE. YOU KNOW I'D ALWAYS LOOK OVER, YOU KNOW, AND SEE ERIN, AND SHE` WOULDN'T BE BOTHERING HER, AND THAT'S WHY I JUST, YOU KNOW, WAS MOTIVATED TO SPEND MORE AND MORE TIME WITH ERIN, BECAUSE EVERY TIME WE DID... (MOUTHS) (CHUCKLES) CUTE. ...EVERY TIME WE DID, IT WAS JUST SO ENJOYABLE. LIKE, THE LAST SINGLE DATE, THAT WAS PRETTY SPECIAL, EH? YEAH, IT WAS. YEAH, AND` STOP! CHUCKLING OH MY GOSH. OH MY GOD, ARE YOU CRYING?! (CHUCKLES) NO, IT'S JUST, LIKE, YOU, AND H` IT'S JUST SO` IT'S JUST` I JUST` OH MY GOD! I'M SO NOT COPING. LAUGHTER SERIOUSLY, I'M JUST NOT COPING. OH, NOW YOU'RE GONNA GET ME GOIN'. NO. OH GOD. JORDAN AND ERIN, THEY SEEM BEAUTIFUL TOGETHER, SO NATURAL, SO NORMAL. SHE'S VERY` AN AWKWARD KINDA PERSON; SHE GETS VERY NERVOUS AND VERY SHUT, BUT WHEN YOU KNOW IT'S RIGHT, SHE'S AWAY LAUGHING, AND THAT'S WHAT SHE IS AT THE MOMENT. SO, YOU THINK YOU'VE HAD ENOUGH TIME TO MAKE THESE SORTA DECISIONS? I-I DON'T THINK I'D EVER HAVE ENOUGH TIME, BUT OUR LAST DATE THAT WE HAD WAS A GREAT INDICATION OF` (CHUCKLES) JUST REMEMBERING BACK, I'M LIKE, 'OH GOD.' CHUCKLING IT WAS A GREAT INDICATION THAT` I THINK EARLY ON YOU TRY AND FORCE A LOT OF CONVERSATIONS ABOUT FINDING EACH OTHER OUT, BUT THE LAST ONE, IT WAS JUST, LIKE, SHITS AND GIGGLES, EH? CHUCKLING YEAH, YEAH. IT WAS SUCH A RELIEF TO SEE HER LOOKING SO HAPPY, SO RELAXED. THEY SEEM TO GET ON REALLY WELL, BUT ALL WE'VE SEEN IS JORDAN WITH OTHER GIRLS, UM,... SO YOU'RE JUST SORTA LOOKING OUT FOR YOUR GIRL, THAT SHE MIGHT GET HURT AND, YOU KNOW, AS A PARENT, YOU JUST DON'T WANT THAT TO HAPPEN. IT IS A WORRY. SO, IS IT NICE, UH` (SIGHS) NICE SEEING YOUR LITTLE GIRL AGAIN? IT'S LOVELY. I'VE MISSED HER SO MUCH. YEAH, I CAN IMAGINE. IT'S GOOD TO HAVE HER AROUND, YEAH. A FEW CONCERNS, COS YOU ARE THE POSTER BOY FOR SERIAL DATING, SO DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'RE READY TO SETTLE DOWN, OR HAS IT GIVEN YOU A TASTE FOR ` 'THIS IS GREAT'? CAN YOU COMMIT TO ONE GIRL AFTER YOUR EXPERIENCES? UNSETTLED MUSIC OMINOUS MUSIC ERIN'S MUM COMES STRAIGHT OUTTA THE GATE AND ASKS ME WHAT MY TRUE INTENTIONS ARE. DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'RE READY TO SETTLE DOWN, OR HAS IT GIVEN YOU A TASTE FOR ` 'THIS IS GREAT'? CAN YOU COMMIT TO ONE GIRL AFTER YOUR EXPERIENCES? AFTER THIS EXPERIENCE, I'LL NEVER DATE MORE THAN ONE GIRL AGAIN. RIGHT. (CHUCKLES) CHUCKLES: IT'S NOT SOMETHING I WANNA MAKE A HABIT OF. I THINK, UM, SORT OF, THE ONE THING MISSING IN MY LIFE IS` YOU KNOW, IS A PARTNER, AND THAT'S` YOU KNOW, THAT'S WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR, IS SOMETHING TO SHARE MOMENTS WITH, YOU KNOW, TOGETHER. I WOULDN'T NECESSARILY SAY IT WAS EASY, BUT SPEAKING TO SOMEBODY'S MOTHER, IS A SPECIAL THING. THEY'RE LOOKING OUT FOR THEIR DAUGHTER 100%. WELL, WE OBVIOUSLY THINK SHE'S WONDERFUL. WHAT QUALITIES DO YOU SEE IN ERIN THAT YOU THINK SHE WOULD BE A GOOD PARTNER FOR YOU? AND DO YOU THINK YOU COULD MAKE HER HAPPY? YEAH. ONE OF THE THINGS I LIKE ABOUT ERIN IS THAT SHE MAKES ME SMILE, AND WE` WE DO GET A BIT GEEKY, AND WE DO HAVE A LAUGH. WE'RE VERY CONTENT WITH WHERE WE'RE BOTH AT THE MOMENT, AND WE'RE JUST ENJOYING EACH OTHER'S TIME. I THINK IT'S ALWAYS GOOD TO FIND OUT WHAT PEOPLE'S MOTIVATION IS, AND IT DOES SEEM LIKE HE'S` HE'S REALLY GENUINE IN HIS PURSUIT. I DO FEEL VERY SETTLED AROUND HER, YOU KNOW, WITH EVERYTHING THAT'S GOING ON. SHE IS A VERY CALMING INFLUENCE, AND, YOU KNOW, THAT'S VERY REASSURING FOR ME, THAT I'VE MET SOMEONE THAT... IS BRINGING THE BEST OUTTA ME, AND I HOPE THAT, IN TURN, I CAN BRING THE BEST OUT OF ERIN. YAY, WE CAN FINALLY CHAT, JUST THE TWO OF US. I KNOW. IT'S ABOUT TIME. SO, NOW AT THIS POINT IN TIME, YOUR FEELINGS TOWARDS HIM ` ARE THEY STRONG? (CHUCKLES) ARE THEY`? I FEEL LIKE THE MORE I GET TO KNOW HIM... YUP. ...AND THE MORE I HANG OUT WITH HIM,... YUP. ...THE MORE I LIKE. IT FEELS... RIGHT. IT'S SO WEIRD. SO HE COULD` HE COULD BE THE ONE? YOU KNOW, I'VE TRIED TO, KIND OF, IMAGINE LIFE AFTER. YEAH, WITH YOUR LABRADORS AND... YEAH, (CHUCKLES) AND, YEAH, I FEEL LIKE BECAUSE WE HAVE SO MUCH IN COMMON, LIKE, WE KIND OF GET EACH OTHER. MM-HM. I'M JUST TRYING TO NOT... OVERTHINK THINGS,... RIGHT. ...AND I JUST WANNA TAKE, KIND OF, EVERY DAY AS IT COMES. I THINK, YOU KNOW, WE ARE SO CLOSE TO THE END NOW, AND SEEING HOW RELAXED I AM AND HE SEEMS TO BE QUITE RELAXED, IT'S KIND OF REALLY EASY TO ENVISION HIM IN MY LIFE AFTER. SO, SLEEP WITH ONE EYE OPEN. YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN HER TRICKS ARE GONNA GET YOU. (CHUCKLES) THERE'S ALWAYS SOMETHING. (CHUCKLES) YEAH, WELL, I'VE BEEN HAVING SOME SLEEPLESS NIGHTS AS OF LATE. YEAH, I BET. I BET. IT'S ABOUT FINDING... THE PERSON WHO HONESTLY AND TRULY WILL BE THE BEST PARTNER TO GO INTO THE FUTURE WITH. ERIN COULD VERY WELL BE THAT PERSON. FINALLY, WE GET TO CHAT. CHUCKLES: YEAH. YES. FEELS AS IF IT'S BEEN A LONG TIME COMING. TOO LONG. (CHUCKLES) MY MOTHER'S OPINION ESPECIALLY MATTERS TO ME, JUST BECAUSE SHE MEANS SO MUCH TO ME; SHE'S MY NUMBER ONE. WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK OF JORDAN? HE SEEMS LOVELY. YEAH? YEAH. REALLY NICE. DID HE GET THE TICK OF APPROVAL? HE DID INDEED, YES. HE DID. GOOD. WHICH HAS KINDA MADE IT A BIT HARDER, REALLY. REALLY? (CHUCKLES) YEAH, IT HAS. (CHUCKLES) BECAUSE... YEAH. DON'T GET TOO ATTACHED. (CHUCKLES) NO, I KNOW. (CHUCKLES) LET'S JUST WAIT A LITTLE WHILE LONGER, YOU KNOW? EXACTLY, EXACTLY. BUT, YEAH, I'M LOOKING FORWARD TO COMING HOME, BUT, YOU KNOW, FINGERS CROSSED THE NEXT TIME IS WITH JORDAN AGAIN,... YEAH. (CHUCKLES) ...SO WHO KNOWS? YEAH. SO, CHEERS. YEAH, THANK YOU. OH, CHEERS. YEAH. AW. (SMOOCHES) MM. THANKS, MAMA. OH, I LOVE YOU. LOVE YOU TOO. MM. HAVE A GREAT WHATEVER-IS-NEXT. YES. YEAH, CHEERS. YES. (CHUCKLES) WE LOOK FORWARD TO HEARING ALL ABOUT IT. CHEERS. WE LOVE YOU. I DEFINITELY FEEL LIKE I NEEDED THIS, BUT I JUST` I FEEL LIKE I'M GONNA STRUGGLE LEAVING TODAY. BRINGING JORDAN HOME HAS DEFINITELY MADE THINGS A BIT MORE REAL, AND I CAN DEFINITELY ENVISION IT MORE, THAT JORDAN COULD BE IN MY LIFE. JORDAN: HEY, THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR HAVING ME. IT WAS AN ABSOLUTE PLEASURE MEETING YOU ALL. NICE TO MEET YOU. IT'S GOOD TO BE HOME. YES. HEY, STAY, ERIN, STAY. ERIN AND ANGELA LAUGH HEY, THANK YOU SO MUCH. OH, I DON'T WANNA GO. (CHUCKLES) THANK YOU. JAIMEE: BEHAVE, EH? I WILL. WILL. LEAVING ERIN'S HOUSE, THERE IS DEFINITELY AN ENERGY THAT'S BEEN BUILT UP. I FEEL A BIT SAD LEAVING, BECAUSE THE RAPPORT THAT I'VE JUST MADE HAS BEEN SO STRONG. THAT WASN'T TOO BAD, WAS IT? IT WAS AWESOME. TOO RA LOO. ANGELA LAUGHS (CHUCKLES) OOH! OH, I DON'T WANNA GO. LAID-BACK MUSIC SO, DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA WHAT WE'RE DOING NEXT? I DUNNO. NO? ALL RIGHT, WELL, WE'RE ACTUALLY TURNING IN HERE. WHAT'S THIS, THAI TIME? OH. NO, IN HERE. OK. AFTERWARDS ERIN HAS THE OPPORTUNITY TO SHOW ME A LITTLE BIT MORE ABOUT HERSELF, SO SHE TAKES ME TO AN COSTUME SHOP. WELL, I THOUGHT WE'VE HAD A FEW CONVERSATIONS NOW ABOUT OUR LOVE FOR` FOR DRESS-UPS. MM-HM. SEE WHAT WE'VE GOT HERE. SO I THOUGHT WE COULD JUST HAVE SOME FUN AND PICK OUT SOME COSTUMES. I LIKE THAT WE CAN JUST RELAX AND JUST HAVE A GOOF-AROUND, THAT IT'S NOT ALWAYS SO SERIOUS. HOW DID YOU FIND TODAY, ANYWAY? YOU KNOW WHAT? I-I THOUGHT IT WAS QUITE GOOD, ACTUALLY. I HAD A GREAT CONVERSATION WITH YOUR MUM. YEAH? SHE, UH` YOU KNOW, SHE` SHE WAS SORTA TOUGH BUT ALSO, LIKE, QUITE UNDERSTANDING ABOUT, YOU KNOW, WHERE I'M AT AND THE SITUATION I'M IN, AND... MM-HM. BUT SHE WAS, YOU KNOW, CONCERNED FOR YOU. NOT SURPRISING. I'M HER BABY. YEAH. THE WHOLE DAY WITH ERIN HAS BEEN PERFECT. FAMILY ` SO LOVING AND WELCOMING. IT WAS VERY COMFORTING FOR ME TO BE ACCEPTED AND, YOU KNOW, YOUR` I THINK` YEAH, I THINK YOU DID VERY WELL. YOU KIND OF... DESERVE A MEDAL... OH. ...FOR HOW WELL YOU DID TODAY. THANKS FOR THAT. I'M EXCITED THAT THERE IS SORT OF A FINISH LINE COMING UP, AND I JUST AM HOPING THAT I'M THE ONE THAT ENDS UP WITH JORDAN. TINKLING EXPECTANT MUSIC TO MEET UP WITH NAZ FOR THE FAMILY VISITS, I'M IN THE WEST COAST OF THE SOUTH ISLAND. MEETING NAZ'S FAMILY IS GONNA BE REALLY IMPORTANT. I THINK IT'S AN INDICATION OF WHO SHE IS AND WHERE SHE'S COME FROM AND ALSO TO HEAR WHO NAZ IS FROM HER LOVED ONES. EXPECTANT MUSIC CONTINUES ALONG THE WAY, JORDAN AND I HAVE MADE A REALLY REALLY STRONG BOND, AND THE FEELING IS DEFINITELY MUTUAL AND GENUINE. THIS VISIT WITH JORDAN IS DEFINITELY A MAKE-OR-BREAK DAY. IT'S REALLY IMPORTANT THAT MY PARTNER GETS ALONG WITH MY FAMILY. HEY. I DO HAVE SOME STRONG FEELINGS FOR NAZ. IT WAS SO GOOD TO SEE HER AGAIN. GOOD TO SEE YOU. BOTH SMOOTH GOOD TO SEE YOU TO. YOU TOO. WELCOME. WHAT'S GOING ON WITH THIS PLACE? (GIGGLES) I ALMOST LOST MY WAY. RIGHT IN MY ELEMENT. YEAH? TARZAN AND JANE. (GIGGLES) I'M JANE; YOU'RE TARZAN? (GIGGLES) I MEANT JANE AND TARZAN. OH, RIGHT, RIGHT. YEAH. GOTCHA. NO, WELCOME TO THE WEST COAST. THANK YOU. THIS IS KUMARA. THIS IS WHERE MY SISTER LIVES. MM-HM. FAMILY MEANS A LOT TO ME. THEY'RE MY EVERYTHING, SO WHAT THEY SAY WILL MAKE A HUGE IMPACT. TELL ME ` WHO AM I GONNA BE MEETING TODAY? SO MY SISTER'S BIG NAZ. YEAH. I'M LITTLE NAZ. YUP. HER NAME'S NASRIN. YEAH. IT'S SPELT N-A-S. MINE'S N-A-Z. RIGHT. SO... BIG NAZ, LITTLE NAZ. BIG NAZ, LITTLE NAZ. YEAH. I KNOW I WON'T BE SEEING NAZ'S PARENTS TODAY, BECAUSE THEY LIVE OVERSEAS, BUT I'M HOPING NAZ'S SISTER WILL BE ABLE TO SHARE SOME HOME TRUTHS FROM THE PARENTS. GO WITH THE FLOW. SO THERE'S NOTHING I SHOULD BE LOOKING OUT FOR OR WORRIED ABOUT? UM, NO. (CHUCKLES) NO. MY SISTER IS ME... BUT TIMES FIFTY. THAT'S TROUBLE. (LAUGHS) NO? NO. AND WHAT'S THEIR NAMES? THERE'S HAMISH. RIGHT. HAMISH IS MY BROTHER-IN-LAW AND THEN LITTLE JASMINE. PERFECT. YUP. HAMISH DOESN'T LET ANYONE JUST GET CLOSE TO ME. HE'S VERY VERY PROTECTIVE. IF HE SEES SOMETHING HE DOESN'T LIKE ABOUT A GUY I'M INTERESTED IN, HE WILL BRUTALLY LET ME KNOW AND LET THEM KNOW THEM KNOW AS WELL. CAN YOU GIVE ME ANY TIPS GOING INTO THIS? ANY TIPS? YEAH. JUST HAVE FUN, GO WITH IT. THEY'LL LOVE YOU FOR IT. THAT SOUNDS GOOD. MEETING NAZ'S FAMILY, I WANNA GO IN THERE JUST BEING MYSELF, AND HOWEVER THEY'LL TAKE ME, THEY'LL TAKE ME. GENTLE MUSIC WHO ARE YOU? HI, (CHUCKLES) I'M GOOD. NAZANIN KHANJANI. HI. BOTH SMOOCH 26-YEAR-OLD LANDSCAPER NAZ WAS FORWARD FROM THE START... MY NAME MEANS 'SWEETHEART', SO... SWEETHEART? SO YOU'RE ACT` YOU'RE PRETTY MUCH CALLING ME 'SWEETIE'. (GIGGLES) YEAH. ...AND SOON A MADE A HABIT OF CALLING OUT HER COMPETITION. I JUST THINK THAT ALL THESE GIRLS ARE NOT HERE FOR JORDAN. I JUST HOPE THAT HE CAN SEE THAT I'M JUST BEING REAL HONEST ABOUT WHAT I'M SEEING WHEN HE'S NOT AROUND. SHE REALLY CAUGHT JORDAN'S ATTENTION ON A DRAMATIC GROUP DATE. (CHUCKLES, SQUEALS) SPLASH! (YELLS) H-HERE, I'M GONNA GRAB YA. GRADUALLY, SHE'S SHOWN A SOFTER SIDE. HE HAD HIS ARMS WRAPPED AROUND ME, SO I FELT QUITE SAFE. THAT WAS AMAZING. AFFECTIONS GREW ON A BREATHTAKING FIRST SINGLE DATE. I'M SEEING A DIFFERENT SIDE OF NAZ. SHE'S VERY AFFECTIONATE. SHE'S VERY LOVING. SHE'S HERE FOR THE RIGHT REASONS. (CHUCKLES) YOU'RE SO CUTE. WITH FEELINGS OUT IN THE OPEN,... THE MOMENTUM TOWARDS NAZ HAS BEEN SORT OF ELEVATED. ...ROMANCE BLOSSOMED IN AUSTRALIA. SO YOU FEEL THE SAME, HUH? YEAH. ROMANTIC MUSIC MUSIC SWELLS BOTH SMOOCH JORDAN AND I HAVE COME TO THE STAGE WHERE WE FEEL LIKE WE CAN TAKE IT TO THE NEXT LEVEL. THERE'S DEFINITELY SOMETHING THERE, AND IT'S DEFINITELY GROWING. READY? SHOW ME YOUR DANCE MOVES. OK. (SQUEALS, CHUCKLES) TINKLING AND, UM, YEAH, THIS IS IT. YEAH? YEAH. HOW YA FEELING ABOUT ALL THIS? WE'RE ALMOST THERE. (SIGHS) YOU KNOW, ALL THE NERVES ARE KICKIN' IN. HONESTY IS WHAT I LOVE ABOUT MY SISTER AND BROTHER-IN-LAW, BUT IT'S THE HONESTY THAT MAKES ME FEARFUL. FEEL-GOOD MUSIC YEAH, THIS IS IT. YEAH? YEAH. HOW YA FEELING ABOUT ALL THIS? WE'RE ALMOST THERE. (SIGHS) YOU KNOW, ALL THE NERVES ARE KICKIN' IN. I'M A LITTLE BIT GIDDY. NOW I'M STARTING TO GET NERVOUS ABOUT GETTING APPROVAL FROM NAZ'S FAMILY. CLAP YOUR HANDS. MAN: OH! HI! (CHUCKLES) CHUCKLES: OH MY GOD. HI. OH MY GOD, DON'T CRY. (CHUCKLES) HI. HOW ARE YOU? (CHUCKLES) (SOBS) (SNIFFLES) I'M SO SILLY. OH MY GOD. I KNOW. DON'T MAKE ME CRY. (CHUCKLES, SMOOCHES) HEY, MATE, HOW ARE YA? HEY, JORDAN, HOW ARE YA? HAMISH. NICE TO MEET YA, BUD. NICE TO MEET YA, MATE. THIS MUST BE LITTLE JASMINE. IT IS, YEAH. HELLO. LITTLE PRINCESS. PRINCESS JASMINE? AND YOU MUST BE, UM,... BIG NAZ. YEAH, NICE` OH, NO, GET THE HANDSHAKES OUT OF THE WAY. OH, OK. (CHUCKLES) NICE TO MEET YOU. NICE TO MEET YOU TOO. NAZ: JASMINE! IT'S BEEN A WHILE SINCE YOU'VE SEEN THIS ONE, RIGHT? IT HAS. YEAH, IT HAS, AND JASMINE'S CHANGED SO MUCH. SHE'S JUST EIGHT-AND-A-HALF MONTHS. LAST TIME WOULD'VE BEEN, LIKE, SIX MONTHS? YUP. SIX MONTHS OLD? EXACTLY. THIS IS JORDAN. HI, JORDAN. (CHUCKLES) (CHUCKLES) OH, YEAH. THANKS FOR THAT (!) TO SEE NAZ MELT AND DRAW TOWARDS HER FAMILY IS REALLY NICE. IT SHOWS A VERY VULNERABLE SIDE. WHAT ARE SOME THINGS SHE PROBABLY HASN'T TOLD ME? HAMISH: OOH. UM, HE'S KNOWS I'M A BIT OF A TOMBOY. NASRIN: YEAH. (CHUCKLES) SHE'S... SUCH A... CONFIDENT LADY, BUT AT THE SAME TIME, IT'S LIKE SHE'S ALL GOOEY IN THE INSIDE TOO. HAMISH: GOOEY IN THE MIDDLE. GOOEY AND SWEET IN THE MIDDLE. GOOEY. SHE REALLY IS. SPEAKING WITH BIG NAZ IS REALLY GREAT INSIGHT TO WHO NAZ IS. THEY ARE TWO PEAS IN A POD, AND THEY ALMOST LOOK LIKE TWINS. SO, HOW DO YOU GO WITH, UH, CHILDREN, JORDAN? OH, I'VE GOT MY NIECE AND NEPHEW. YEAH. HEY. THIS A GOOD` THIS IS GONNA BE A SIGN. JORDAN! YEAH? YOU WANNA COME OVER? AH! HELLO! NAZ: SO IF SHE CRIES... HELLO. AH! HI. (BABBLES) EH? YOU GONNA STAND UP? YEAH? JORDAN IS REALLY GOOD WITH THE BABY, AND A BIT TOO GOOD, ACTUALLY. CHUCKLES: THAT'S A GOOD SIGN. YEAH. NASRIN: JUST SITS. IS THAT THUMBS UP? YEAH, THAT'S A THUMBS UP. NAZ: THAT'S A THUMBS UP. WHEN HE HANDS JASMINE TO ME, SHE STARTS CRYING. JASMINES CRIES NASRIN: OH! HAMISH: WELL... (CHUCKLES) GOOD WITH CHILDREN? JASMINE CRIES, NAZ CHUCKLES DO YOU WANNA GIVE HER BACK TO UNKIE JORD? NAZ: YES. YEAH. OH, LOOK! INSTANT. NASRIN: OH! (CHUCKLES) AW. HUH. JUST FORGOT ABOUT ME. THAT'S ALL RIGHT. I DEFINITELY WANT A BABY. I-I'M A FAMILY GIRL, AND HOPEFULLY ONE DAY I'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE THAT WITH JORDAN. MELLOW COUNTRY MUSIC MY PARENTS, THEY BOTH PROMISED ME A HORSE. AND YOU'VE GOT ON NOW. YEAH. I THINK I'M GONNA FIND OUT A LOT ABOUT LITTLE NAZ FROM BIG NAZ. THIS IS GULLIVER. YEAH. YUP, AND HE'S BEEN IN THE FAMILY FOR A FEW YEARS NOW. BEAUTIFUL CLYDESDALE. YEAH, HE'S SO SWEET. NAZ AND I GREW UP IN A CITY, BUT WE APPRECIATE THE COUNTRY. SPEAKING OF NAZ, WHAT DO YOU APPRECIATE IN HER? UM, SHE REALLY KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS. SHE'S VERY CONFIDENT. YEAH. AND I THINK WITH HER STRONG MINDEDNESS IS THAT THAT PUT A LOT OF THE GIRLS OFF, AND THE MORE TIME WE SPENT ONE-ON-ONE, UM, I SAW THIS VERY, UM, AFFECTIONATE SIDE. HE'S QUITE CHILLED, AND THE WOMEN IN MY FAMILY, WE LIKE CHILLED MEN THAT CAN HANDLE BEING UNDER PRESSURE, COS SOMETIMES WE WILL PUT YOU UNDER PRESSURE. WE JUST TO APPRECIATE HER, BECAUSE SHE REALLY IS LOYAL, LOVING, CARING, THOUGHTFUL. ALSO GOT A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOUR AS WELL. FOR SURE. (CHUCKLES) HE'S LIKE, 'HUG ME.' (SNORTS) GOOD BOY. BIRDS CHIRP CHEERFUL COUNTRY MUSIC HAMISH WANTS TO SPEAK MORE, SO WE GO OUT AND WORK THE GROUNDS. GRAB A TREE. (GRUNTS) YEAH. HAMISH IS ALSO NAZ'S BOSS,... SO HE KNOWS HER FROM A LOT OF DIFFERENT ANGLES. SO, THIS IS FAMILY BIZZO. YUP. LOOSEN HER UP FOR YA. YEAH, MATE. YEAH. WE'LL JUST POP THE TOP OFF THE WHOLE WAY, CLEAN IT OUT. ALMOST LOOK LIKE YOU'VE DONE THIS BEFORE. GRINDING OH, FEW TIMES. I JUST WANNA SEE WHAT HIS INTENTIONS ARE, IF HE'S GENUINELY IN THIS FOR LOVE, FOR A DECENT RELATIONSHIP. SO HOW LONG HAVE YOU KNOWN NAZ FOR NOW? UH, ABOUT 10 YEARS. YEAH? YEAH, WHEN SHE WAS ABOUT 16 WAS ABOUT WHEN I STARTED DATING HER SISTER. WELL, IS THERE ANY CONCERNS THAT YOU'VE GOT? UM, YEAH. WELL, THERE'S ALWAYS THE CONCERN OF THE BROKEN HEART, ISN'T THERE? YEAH. AND I'D HATE TO SEE HER GET, YOU KNOW, DECIMATED AT THE END. REFLECTIVE MUSIC MY SISTER AND HAMISH, THEY'LL LET ME KNOW IF THEY SEE THE GOOD IN HIM AND THE BAD. SO DO YOU THINK HE'S THE ONE? (CHUCKLES) OH MY GOD. UM, I DIDN'T EXPECT TO BE SO EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED TO SOMEONE SO SOON. AW. HE MEANS A LOT TO ME, AND I DO CARE ABOUT HIM. JORDAN IS SPECIAL. HE IS AMAZING, AND I CAN REALLY SEE MYSELF WITH HIM. SO DO YOU THINK HE COULD BE THE FATHER OF YOUR CHILDREN? WHOA! (CHUCKLES) IT'S FUNNY YOU ASK THAT, BECAUSE HE'S DEFINITELY A FAMILY MAN, AND HE'S TOLD ME, AS WELL, ABOUT HOW IMPORTANT FAMILY IS TO HIM, AND I'VE TOLD HIM HOW IMPORTANT IT IS TO US AS WELL. IT'S GOOD TO HAVE THAT IN A PARTNER, TO HAVE SOME SORT OF, YOU KNOW, COMPATIBILITY. YEAH. (CHUCKLES) (CHUCKLES) GOOD TO SEE YOU GOT SKILLS THERE, JORDAN. OH, CHEERS, MATE. TRY THE BEST. TRY MY BEST. WITH NAZ, YOU KNOW, LIKE, UH, SHE IS A STRONG-MINDED PERSON, AND OBVIOUSLY YOU ARE YOURSELF. YOUSE BOTH HAVE TO BE CAREFUL. OBVIOUSLY, YOU'RE TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE, AND YOU'VE GOT A LOT OF LEARNING TO DO. YEAH. YEAH, NAH, I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST ANYWAY. CHEERS, MATE. APPRECIATE THE ADVICE. (SIGHS) OK, SO, I REALLY NEED TO KNOW, UM, DO YOU APPROVE? IS HE GONNA PASS OR`? WHAT DO YOU THINK? TENSE MUSIC SO, I DO SEE A FEW GOOD QUALITIES IN JORDAN. SO THAT'S A PASS? (CHUCKLES) IT'S A... 90% PASS. (CHUCKLES) NO, YOU KNOW` WHAT DO YOU MEAN 90%? NO, NO, LIKE, IT'S A LOT. IT'S ACTUALLY QUITE A LOT,... (LAUGHS) ...AND I RESPECT THAT, AND I'M SURE JORDAN WILL RESPECT IT AS WELL, BECAUSE YOU'RE BEING BLUNTLY HONEST,... YEAH. ...AND I TOTALLY GET IT. AND IT'S ACTUALLY A REALLY GOOD MARK. (CHUCKLES) EXACTLY. YEAH. FOR MY PARTNER TO GET ALONG WITH MY FAMILY MEANS EVERYTHING TO ME. IT'S SO IMPORTANT, AND IT ALL WENT WELL. YEAH, OF COURSE. YEAH, I'LL LET YOU SAY YOUR GOODBYES. BYE, DARLING. I'VE LEARNT A LOT OF THINGS ABOUT NAZ TODAY. SHE HAS A VERY LOVING, SENSITIVE SIDE. AW. AW, LOVE YOU. BIG FAMILY HUG. MISS YOU. CAN I TAKE HER? (CHUCKLES) THAT IS A FAMILY UNIT THAT I CAN DEFINITELY SEE MYSELF IN. BYE-BYE! BYE. SEE YOU GUYS. THANKS FOR HAVING US. THANK YOU. SEE YA. BYE! RELAXED MUSIC I'VE TAKEN JORDAN TO ONE OF MY FAVOURITE SPOTS ON THE WEST COAST ` LAKE BRUNNER. IT'S SO BEAUTIFUL, AND IT'S THE PERFECT WAY TO END OUR DAY. SO HOW DO YOU THINK TODAY WENT? YEAH, GOOD. YEAH? YEAH. THEY'VE BEEN VERY HONEST ABOUT WHAT THEY THINK, AND THEY LIKE WHAT THEY SEE WHEN THEY SEE US TOGETHER. SO IT MEANS A LOT THAT, YOU KNOW, YOU PASS. (CHUCKLES SOFTLY) I PASS? YOU PASS. NAH, I'VE REALLY ENJOYED BEING HERE WITH YOU. AW, ME TOO. AFTER JORDAN MEETING MY FAMILY, IT'S DEFINITELY BROUGHT US A LOT CLOSER. THANK YOU. ALL RIGHT. I HAVEN'T FALLEN IN LOVE WITH JORDAN, BUT... I'M NOT FAR OFF IT. THIS IS` MAKING A HABIT OF THIS, EH? TOMORROW NIGHT ON THE BACHELOR ` I WANT IT JUST TO BE US TWO. YOU HAVE TO FIGHT TO GET HIM. I HAVE NEVER FELT THIS WITH ANY GUY EVER BEFORE. THREE UNFORGETTABLE FANTASY DATES WITH JORDAN. IT'S PERFECT. THIS TIME THERE'S NO CURFEW. WE ACTUALLY HAVE THIS WHOLE PLACE TO OURSELVES OVERNIGHT. IT'S NERVE-WRACKING. I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY. AND AN AGONISING DECISION... SENDING SOMEONE HOME TONIGHT IS SO HARD. ...SEES THREE BECOME THE FINAL TWO. CAPTIONS WERE MADE POSSIBLE WITH FUNDING FROM NZ ON AIR. COPYRIGHT ABLE 2016